Why Men Are Delaying Marriage
A growing number of young men in Ghana are deliberately choosing to delay marriage or avoid tying the knot at a young age, according to a recent lifestyle feature published by Ghana View News. The trend reflects broader social, economic and personal concerns, shaping how marriage is viewed in modern society.
While marriage was once seen as a near-universal milestone in early adulthood, many men now see it as a decision that requires careful timing rather than cultural expectation.
Reasons Men Are Delaying Marriage
Financial Pressure and Economic Uncertainty
One of the strongest factors men cited was financial instability. Many young men struggle with low income, job insecurity and high cost of living, making it difficult to feel “ready” for marriage. Being expected to provide for a family intensifies this pressure, leading many to postpone commitment until they feel financially secure.
Rising Cost of Weddings and Bride Price
Traditional costs linked to bride price, customary rites and elaborate wedding ceremonies have also discouraged early marriage. These expenses can be overwhelming for men who feel unable to meet societal expectations or worry about going into debt before starting married life.
Fear of Divorce and Marriage Risks
High divorce rates and public narratives about failed marriages have made some men wary of the emotional and financial fallout that can accompany marital breakdown. The possibility of divorce adds to the hesitation to marry early.
Career Focus and Personal Goals
Many men prioritize education, career development, and exploring opportunities before settling down. They see early adulthood as a time for personal growth and achievement, believing marriage may impose responsibilities that limit their mobility and ambitions.
High Expectations and Relationship Standards
Modern marriage expectations including emotional support, shared lifestyle goals, and balanced partnership roles can feel demanding to young men who may not yet feel confident in their ability to meet them. This pressure to “have it all” emotionally and financially contributes to reluctance.
Traditional Provider Role Pressure
Despite evolving gender norms, many cultures still expect men to serve as primary providers. This traditional role can create anxiety and feelings of inadequacy for those who feel unprepared to shoulder these responsibilities early in life.
Personal Insecurity and Relationship Trauma
Some men cited past relationship challenges, emotional insecurities or lack of confidence as reasons for postponing marriage. Such experiences can shape how men view long-term commitment.
Value of Freedom and Independence
For many young men today, personal freedom and independence rank highly. Marriage is sometimes perceived as a loss of autonomy, prompting some to delay it until they are certain they are ready for shared life responsibilities.
Exposure to Negative Marriage Examples
Witnessing unhealthy relationships or unstable marriages in families or communities can also discourage early commitment. These examples influence men’s perceptions of marital stability and long-term partnership.
Trust and Vulnerability Issues
Some men expressed hesitation rooted in trust issues or fear of emotional vulnerability. Past betrayals or difficult breakups can make the idea of lifelong commitment feel daunting, leading to a preference for caution and delay.
